If you’re a lady just who loves staying in control otherwise a boy just who enjoys playing an even more subordinate character, you will be curious-or already winding up employed in-female-added relationships.
What exactly is a woman-provided dating, or FLR?
A female-led relationships, or FLR, is actually traditionally a type of Bdsm relationship ranging from a prominent girl and you can an excellent submissive child. Whilst the title started inside kink area, some people now make use of the term “female-contributed relationship” a great deal more basically to explain people relationship anywhere between a man and you may a beneficial lady where lady retains a lot more power compared to the kid, whether or not with respect to breadwinner status, decision-to make expert, or perhaps the couple’s intimate vibrant.
“The meaning has some versions, as this is a broad umbrella title,” according to sex teacher and you may professional dominatrix Lola Jean. “FLR are any relationship that isn’t ‘male-added.’ In really lenient structure, [a keen FLR could be] more of an equal-strength or ranged-strength change anywhere between couples. Within the a lot more extreme and possibly traditional [form], FLR try a relationship where lady, otherwise femme, ‘s the decision-originator into the almost every other partner. This could be from their earnings to their outfits to a great deal more menial jobs including chores.”
The lower than personality could well be involved in an FLR, although not all the must be present to own a link to qualify FLR:
- The woman is the actual only real otherwise no. 1 income earner throughout the dating.
- The guy protects really otherwise all of the home-based obligations and you can childcare.
- The woman is the main choice-maker on the dating.
- The girl opinion, thinking, and views are supplied consideration over the mans in the relationships.
- Her has full monetary control regarding the relationship, and handling just what kid are otherwise actually permitted to invest money on.